G6 Emergency fund

[G6Cad]

  

Thank you guys, i cant even explain the great feeling inside of the hope you all giving me and my children right now.
Even if we have is somewhat real though time now with a lot of things missing for the home and some stupid arguments with my "husband" for things i think i should have for the children, but he just took while I were in the hospital with Dennis, you give us a smile on our face when me and the children sit here and try to plan our life from now on
And stupid arguments like he took the TV, The boiler he never even used as long as we had it, how stupid am i to actually get sad over a boiler or a TV 
I can make my tea on the stove in a pot, and TV.. we have pussles and games we can spend time with. But never less, in time we will have those things again, and this time, it's ours and no one will argu with us for them 

I have written the links up on a paper so i can read them when i get my own pc in the new home, im lars pc now and i will be offline again to night until i have bought a PC for the donations, with all the help you have provided for me it wil not be long, and that is one of the gratest feelings i have had for a VERY long time.
So once again from the bottom of our hearts here, THANK YOU! And god bless your big hearts and your care for a simple family like us  <<-- Happy tears !

Love
// G6

[Shadow]

Your most wolcome.  I'm glad thing's getting lot's better now for you and your family.

[kevon]

No worries G
I've always said "The only difference between the 'haves" and the 'have-nots' is timing."
Who knows, it could be one of us in the same situation tomorrow.
I only wish people were as nice off of the internet as they have been to you on here.

Good luck and God Bless

[G6Cad]

Exactly, im not ALL that old  so i still have a lot of time on my hands hopefully if god wants to keep me here on earth

Just so you know, this is the last time i can be online until i have my own PC or laptop now, they will take this machine from here to day, and im just here to pic up the last things i forgot about when i packed things, so until next time, i hope you will have a real great time with my family and friends in here.
Keep up the good works, and remember to help one and other where you can 

Thank you all for this great weekend, you gave a LOT more then just donations to us, you gave us smiles on our faces, and hopes for the future.
Thank you sooo much for that.

love
//G6 with children

[Crip]

Be seeing you soon G6, and God speed!

[Nifelhein]

Be well, until later this week.

[Satir]

Hi G6,

i don't know exactly what you are doing for TP. But i love this addon.

So i made also a donation to help you and your family.

Regards from Germany

[G6Cad]

Thank you Satir 

Im not sure what im doing in here some times my self, but give all the support possible is what i usually do Sometimes i even shout at members when they dont read and some times I hug members cause i like to, and sometimes i just step in and set their forums up for them and help them get going.
So in short, im giving all the support i can to the ones that need help 

Best of all, this forum and team and members to, are the very reason im still breathing to day, if it werent for you all in here, i wouldent have had the strength to keep moving in life after all the turns the last year now, its been a lot, and be in here giving all the help i can/could have got me through my sons operation, loosing my home, husband, and a steady income from work as they replaced me cause of me being in the hospital with my son 
But things are going forward again, and with your help Im in good process to build up both my self and my children for a new life.
So thank you for all the help, you dont really know HOW much you give me to keep me standing and still fight for the right to a life.

Thats a little bit of who I am, and what i have been doing in here, and definatly what i hope be able to give you in the future to

[DreamSinger]

What comes through even more than your husband's behavior is your strength, and the beauty you hold in your heart. It's just too much to be contained, and spills over in your words, your presence and just how much of yourself you give to others.

I was homeless with two young children after my first divorce (yes, I did this twice  ), but only had to sleep in the back of my car a few times, due to the graciousness of friends and even strangers. But being disenfranchised in this way lasted about 18 months, and it was very hard and trying on us not to have our own address.

That's why we wound up sleeing in the back of our car. It was summer and we all decided that we'd rather sleep there and be in our "own" space rather than sleep in a group home or at someone's charity again. I read you have an apartment, so that is great! It was wonderful when we finally got ours!

I can't imagine how hard this must be with your son's health, too, and all the responsibilities on top of you. But as you look at those nice things you've lost, also look at the crap you're losing - being married to the lies, the deceit, the manipulation, the betrayal. In that sense, I am happy for you. A fresh start without the toxic stuff.

I'm not sure where you live, but where I live they have common property law, which means it doesn't matter who contributes what in terms of dollars to the house. Everything is divided up equally. This recognizes the value of the person who may stay home longer with kids, or in the case of a woman, must deal with the financial inequities in pay scale and opportunities within that culture.

Your son has been really ill, and you lost your job because of all the hours spent with him? And your husband, I assume, didn't? And did he not lose his job because his employers were so much more understanding or because he didn't put in the time? Why don't you slap him for "childcare" ? is it possible? Couldn't hurt to try. Make him pay his portion, what he would have had to pay someone to tend to his child while he was at work or whatever, if you weren't there? I mean, it's great. He made the most money, but how much of that was because you were covering for him in other areas?  If the actual dollars wasn't 50/50, was the childcare?

I may be way off base, because I'm new to this board and don't know much about your situation, but it just steams me when everyone places all their value on $$$.  Well, time has $ value as well. A parent's time with children has value. Try hiring a nanny. See how cheap that is. That should be factored into how much you've contributed to your household. Why not be fair in that arena as well?

Okay, off my soapbox. Wherever you are, I'm sending you loving thoughts, a little bit of money and a song.

Right now, I sing this for you.

Broadband
Dial Up

I believe in you and I believe in your children.

[G6Cad]

hahaha, thank you SO much for the song i have to listen a coupple of times more to get all of the text, but i will listen to it again

Im living in sweden, and we have about the same here with 50750 when separation is knocking on the door.
But there are so many things in the laws here that i had to get a lawyer to help me with all the things there is (he got one first)

The house will be sold, and the money from the sale will first be divided to pay of the loans we have on it, we have pretty much loan on all of it's value cause of Dennis illness and all the time spent in here with him, had to get money from some where to cover things, but it ended up in about full loan for the value of the house, so there will probably not be anything left when the loans are paid after the ale, the best "we" can hope for is that there will be more then 2 or 3 interested buyers that will start to bid on the house to get it, that will make more money for us and perhaps that way give us something back from what we have put in there.
At the same time i see it like i allready HAVE got what i could from it with the extra loans to be with Dennis as long as possible, so in that part i dont expect anything.
Also if it will sell in higher value, there will be taxes to for the "profit" so i think im happier if it turns out to be +-0 there (easy way out)

About the childsupport, there are also a glinch, he have the oldest teen living with him, and i have a teen daughter and Dennis and Zackl with me, i have the right to get 900 times 2 for Dennis and Zack, but for my daugther it will equall out on the Teen son he have, and Dennis wants to be with his dad to every 2 weeks over the weekend (cant denie him that and dont want to eather) so that will equall Dennis to, so i have the right to 900sek ~120$/month in childsupport in the end 
Also his work, living he have now, and travel part as he is the one with the car now he have the right to take off the costs for fetching Dennis, so he will more or less be home free in childsupport there to according to our way of the laws.
But atleast i will be the same to him to, so im glad i dont have more costs du to the divorse and childsupport.

I dont care all that much over most of the things but the personal things i had that i will have to fight him over, he knows i cant afford to keep a lawyer to long so keep the fingers crossed that she is good and fast in this. I hope she is anyway.

What scares me the most, and whats the hardest things for me now is friends and the life itself.
Most friends were eather at work or friends we had to gether.
Most of my friends i had that were mine alone I have here on the internet, thats one of the things Im so scared to miss and loose right now when i cant be online with out pay for it in the internet café here.
But i have to keep my hopes up some how, and i have to be in here or i will go crazy totally, i also need to be able to HELP others or I will feel bad and even worse then bad, im raised to help, and i love the feeling to be able to help in any way i can, and with out TP or my own sites, i cant do anything of a kind, I call it my maouse trap, I smell the cheese from TP, but i cant get to it, but i have to to feel good so i trap my self in the end 

Hope this explained some of the "jam", i will be out of it some time some how, and you are one BIG great help in getting me some thing that matters so much to me.
Thank you for caring so much.
Love
//g6