PLEASE PLEASE HELP ME!!

[IchBin]

If you want to execute the mod then you need to use the package manager. If you can't use the package manager then you need to manually do everything the mod tells you to. Copy the files to the appropriate places and edit the corresponding files that it tells you to.

[pengi]

I dont think there is any host more strict than mine, I have a ring on my finger from him
And sometimes manually uploading is harder than it seems, esp. when you are new to this entire project (message boards & PHP)
The 777 wasnt a problem for me, it was simple, I was using the wrong path (I forgot my public_html/smf and assumed only just needed '/smf')

I had  [url]read on smf site re: problems with package manager  than it was suggested to have your host take you out of safe mode as well 'our recommendation has been to ask your host to enable PHP suExec'
Here: http://www.simplemachines.org/community/index.php?topic=28393.0

Now you can  download it below (for not involving your host) here
http://www.simplemachines.org/community/index.php?action=dlattach;topic=28393.0;attach=4565

(which is what I did. I tried just about everything and then for some miricle, something it worked)