default shows Tp is installed, or not installed aswell as Cerubus?

no TPadmin on default

It doesn't look to me like TP is installed. It's hard to tell though because you have made it so that we can't see the site without being logged in.

Cerbus Theme would have shown if Tp was installed I do believe?

Try running manual-install.php again, if theres no change -- try tp.zip again via package manager..

OK

getting these errors in admin panel

Undefined index: TPortal in /home/minelabo/public_html/Sources/Load.php(1040) : eval()'d code on line 383
Undefined index: TPortal in /home/minelabo/public_html/Sources/Load.php(1040) : eval()'d code on line 408
Undefined index: TPortal in /home/minelabo/public_html/Sources/Load.php(1040) : eval()'d code on line 393

An Error Has Occurred!
2: unlink(/home/minelabo/public_html/Packages/temp/Themes/babylon/images/english/dlmanager.gif): Permission denied
File: /home/minelabo/public_html/Sources/Subs-Package.php
Line: 910  

sorry when using packing manager

Open up FTP and make sure all files are there, and they are not 0Kb. If they are, over write them with files from the package.

I am going to delete the lot and start from scratch!
So I
1: Upload SMF files and install them
2: Upload via package manager the TP zip file and apply it
3: upload and install the beberius_tp theme

and all should be ok..........heres hoping!