confermation code not working
when you send a pm

A assume you mean the Verification code not showing up ?

This is something you have to ask about over at Simplemachines.org.

One thing i DO know is that if you have FelBlog installed, this can cause conflicts with the verification, so try and uninstall Felblog first and see if it helps (now this is only if you HAVE felblog installed)

wel i dont mean for my site
for this site
i did send a messige to a person
but when i tried to send a second one i needed to give a verification code
and that is not shown: only a red cross

i get this

Missing fonts..or maybe missing bakcground. Could be a lot of things, even no support for GD library though thats rare nowadays. Make sure the admin there turns it off in the meantime.

Bloc I think he means this site (Tinyportal) where its not working

indeed lol
just triing to help

We have the verification mod installed here? I've never seen it when I send PM's.

No I didn't see it either, I sent my self some test pm's, unless it don't show for staff 

I havent seen that eather here at any time