I did the first thing in the poll the first time i read about it on your site about 6 minth ago, so i voted on the first.
I also told the other parrents to our newborn group we had then, and they were chocked to. I know atleast 2 of the 11 familys changed their WindowBlinds to dark curtains insted, just as i did here to.
The flash is more then great, it touches you, and you get tears in the eyes from the thought about the children that dont exist with us anymore. Also bring some angry thoughts to.