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Urgent request from the TP Team

G6 is in a very desperate situation. She is a Mother of three with one in ICU, going through a divorce that will leave her with nearly nothing, homeless and without money for food. Read G6's story here (http://www.tinyportal.net/index.php?topic=12416.msg103410#msg103410).

G6 has begrudgingly authorized our request for help on her behalf. She, like most of us, prefers to take care of herself and is not given to asking for help even when help is desperately needed. The TP Team believes this site is more than just a place to talk about software. We are a family. G6 has given of her time and her knowledge to strangers for a long time, never asking for anything in return. Many of us have come to her when we needed help and now are happy to lend a hand when she needs one.

You can donate to her directly and indirectly by the following methods:

1. Send a donation directly to her PayPal account. webmaster@familjegodis.se
Yes, the account is unreachable by the husband.

2. Make a donation using the "Donate" button here on Bloc's site. Put "G6 Emergency Fund" or something to that effect in the comments section.

3. Bloc and  StormLrd are donating the proceeds from sales of several themes to G6. Purchase one or more of the following themes and you get a great theme and G6 will receive the proceeds.

• Azure (http://www.tinyportal.net/index.php?action=themeshop;item=11) by Bloc
• Artifical Intelligence (http://www.tinyportal.net/index.php?action=themeshop;item=20) by StormLrd

Any help regardless of how small will be greatly appreciated by G6, her family and the entire TP Team. Your contribution, however small, will make a difference to G6 and her family.

In the event you are unable to donate your words of encouragement will help G6 keep her spirits up.

One hour surf time goes by all to fast  :'(

The donations for my found is now up to 160$ in total, and i want to say THANK you to the members that have boght the themes, and even made a donation for me to be able to get online again with my own machine.
There is still a long way toi reach an amount to even a used laptop, but with your help I still have the hopes up to be able to help out and give all the support possible to you people again.

So with 3 min left, and with tears in the eyes, i want to say, THANK YOU FOR THE SUPPORT AND HELP!!
  :-*

 :'( Same here, good to hear from you and keep smiling.  Maybe in a few weeks I can help out again.

I donated.


Best wishes G6.. it's not much.



ZTN

jou have my moral support G6

i hope jou get over it :)

Thank you Zetan , it might be a small donation to your eyes, but to me it's a lot and one more step forward in life.
So no matter how little it is, is's a lot to me and my children  :-*

And thank you for your support bertyhell, even a thought helps a lot when you need it the most :)

Your welcome :)

Good luck with everything.. and thanks for Your support ;)


ZTN

I will send everything in my paypal account. It is only $3.30, but I guess eveything helps, right?

Every thing helps believe me, if i find a penny on the ground, im sure going to pick it up, thats how important small help is to us, thank you for your donation cronic5, both the thought and the amount counts a lot  :-*

We have ever spoken.
But I made a small donation to help ease things for you.
I hope it help
Good luck

if you put an "s" at the end of "help".... the scentence will make more sense

oh, and an "n" a the begining of "ever"

I am a crappy typer

I going to try my best to help out best as i can. 

Thank you kevon  :-* , and i think we both need to go a typing class  :D

Quote from: G6â„¢ on February 02, 2007, 07:49:20 PM
Thank you kevon  :-* , and i think we both need to go a typing class  :D

You're quite welcome
Maybe when you get things all sorted out we'll take an online typing class. hehehe

I donated what I had left in my paypal account. Wasn't much, but I hope it helps you out.

Thank you all :)   
Im getting there, IM GETTING THERE  :-*  :-*  :-*

Its good to see you here again, I hope things get better for you soon :)

heard about you in our chat room and i wanted to help...it wasn't much but i hope it helps

Cole - The LAB Radio Team

*cough* I didn't do it.. honest.
It was all Cole!


ZTN

 :2funny: 

Thank you guys, i cant even explain the great feeling inside of the hope you all giving me and my children right now.
Even if we have is somewhat real though time now with a lot of things missing for the home and some stupid arguments with my "husband" for things i think i should have for the children, but he just took while I were in the hospital with Dennis, you give us a smile on our face when me and the children sit here and try to plan our life from now on :)
And stupid arguments like he took the TV, The boiler he never even used as long as we had it, how stupid am i to actually get sad over a boiler or a TV  ???
I can make my tea on the stove in a pot, and TV.. we have pussles and games we can spend time with. But never less, in time we will have those things again, and this time, it's ours and no one will argu with us for them  :D

I have written the links up on a paper so i can read them when i get my own pc in the new home, im lars pc now and i will be offline again to night until i have bought a PC for the donations, with all the help you have provided for me it wil not be long, and that is one of the gratest feelings i have had for a VERY long time.
So once again from the bottom of our hearts here, THANK YOU! And god bless your big hearts and your care for a simple family like us  :'( <<-- Happy tears !

Love
// G6

Your most wolcome.  I'm glad thing's getting lot's better now for you and your family.

No worries G
I've always said "The only difference between the 'haves" and the 'have-nots' is timing."
Who knows, it could be one of us in the same situation tomorrow.
I only wish people were as nice off of the internet as they have been to you on here. :)

Good luck and God Bless

Exactly, im not ALL that old  ::) so i still have a lot of time on my hands hopefully if god wants to keep me here on earth :)

Just so you know, this is the last time i can be online until i have my own PC or laptop now, they will take this machine from here to day, and im just here to pic up the last things i forgot about when i packed things, so until next time, i hope you will have a real great time with my family and friends in here.
Keep up the good works, and remember to help one and other where you can  :-*

Thank you all for this great weekend, you gave a LOT more then just donations to us, you gave us smiles on our faces, and hopes for the future.
Thank you sooo much for that.

love
//G6 with children

Be seeing you soon G6, and God speed!

Be well, until later this week. ;)

Hi G6,

i don't know exactly what you are doing for TP. But i love this addon.

So i made also a donation to help you and your family.

Regards from Germany

Thank you Satir  :-*

Im not sure what im doing in here some times my self, but give all the support possible is what i usually do :) Sometimes i even shout at members when they dont read and some times I hug members cause i like to, and sometimes i just step in and set their forums up for them and help them get going.
So in short, im giving all the support i can to the ones that need help  :P

Best of all, this forum and team and members to, are the very reason im still breathing to day, if it werent for you all in here, i wouldent have had the strength to keep moving in life after all the turns the last year now, its been a lot, and be in here giving all the help i can/could have got me through my sons operation, loosing my home, husband, and a steady income from work as they replaced me cause of me being in the hospital with my son  :-\
But things are going forward again, and with your help Im in good process to build up both my self and my children for a new life.
So thank you for all the help, you dont really know HOW much you give me to keep me standing and still fight for the right to a life.

Thats a little bit of who I am, and what i have been doing in here, and definatly what i hope be able to give you in the future to :)

What comes through even more than your husband's behavior is your strength, and the beauty you hold in your heart. It's just too much to be contained, and spills over in your words, your presence and just how much of yourself you give to others.

I was homeless with two young children after my first divorce (yes, I did this twice  ::)), but only had to sleep in the back of my car a few times, due to the graciousness of friends and even strangers. But being disenfranchised in this way lasted about 18 months, and it was very hard and trying on us not to have our own address.

That's why we wound up sleeing in the back of our car. It was summer and we all decided that we'd rather sleep there and be in our "own" space rather than sleep in a group home or at someone's charity again. I read you have an apartment, so that is great! It was wonderful when we finally got ours!

I can't imagine how hard this must be with your son's health, too, and all the responsibilities on top of you. But as you look at those nice things you've lost, also look at the crap you're losing - being married to the lies, the deceit, the manipulation, the betrayal. In that sense, I am happy for you. A fresh start without the toxic stuff.

I'm not sure where you live, but where I live they have common property law, which means it doesn't matter who contributes what in terms of dollars to the house. Everything is divided up equally. This recognizes the value of the person who may stay home longer with kids, or in the case of a woman, must deal with the financial inequities in pay scale and opportunities within that culture.

Your son has been really ill, and you lost your job because of all the hours spent with him? And your husband, I assume, didn't? And did he not lose his job because his employers were so much more understanding or because he didn't put in the time? Why don't you slap him for "childcare" ? is it possible? Couldn't hurt to try. Make him pay his portion, what he would have had to pay someone to tend to his child while he was at work or whatever, if you weren't there? I mean, it's great. He made the most money, but how much of that was because you were covering for him in other areas?  If the actual dollars wasn't 50/50, was the childcare?

I may be way off base, because I'm new to this board and don't know much about your situation, but it just steams me when everyone places all their value on $$$.  Well, time has $ value as well. A parent's time with children has value. Try hiring a nanny. See how cheap that is. That should be factored into how much you've contributed to your household. Why not be fair in that arena as well?

Okay, off my soapbox. Wherever you are, I'm sending you loving thoughts, a little bit of money and a song.

Right now, I sing this for you.

Broadband (http://www.soundclick.com/util/streamm3u.m3u?id=878180&q=hi)
Dial Up (http://www.soundclick.com/util/streamm3u.m3u?id=878180&q=lo)

I believe in you and I believe in your children.

hahaha, thank you SO much for the song :) i have to listen a coupple of times more to get all of the text, but i will listen to it again :)

Im living in sweden, and we have about the same here with 50750 when separation is knocking on the door.
But there are so many things in the laws here that i had to get a lawyer to help me with all the things there is (he got one first)

The house will be sold, and the money from the sale will first be divided to pay of the loans we have on it, we have pretty much loan on all of it's value cause of Dennis illness and all the time spent in here with him, had to get money from some where to cover things, but it ended up in about full loan for the value of the house, so there will probably not be anything left when the loans are paid after the ale, the best "we" can hope for is that there will be more then 2 or 3 interested buyers that will start to bid on the house to get it, that will make more money for us and perhaps that way give us something back from what we have put in there.
At the same time i see it like i allready HAVE got what i could from it with the extra loans to be with Dennis as long as possible, so in that part i dont expect anything.
Also if it will sell in higher value, there will be taxes to for the "profit" so i think im happier if it turns out to be +-0 there (easy way out)

About the childsupport, there are also a glinch, he have the oldest teen living with him, and i have a teen daughter and Dennis and Zackl with me, i have the right to get 900 times 2 for Dennis and Zack, but for my daugther it will equall out on the Teen son he have, and Dennis wants to be with his dad to every 2 weeks over the weekend (cant denie him that and dont want to eather) so that will equall Dennis to, so i have the right to 900sek ~120$/month in childsupport in the end  :-\
Also his work, living he have now, and travel part as he is the one with the car now he have the right to take off the costs for fetching Dennis, so he will more or less be home free in childsupport there to according to our way of the laws.
But atleast i will be the same to him to, so im glad i dont have more costs du to the divorse and childsupport.

I dont care all that much over most of the things but the personal things i had that i will have to fight him over, he knows i cant afford to keep a lawyer to long so keep the fingers crossed that she is good and fast in this. I hope she is anyway.

What scares me the most, and whats the hardest things for me now is friends and the life itself.
Most friends were eather at work or friends we had to gether.
Most of my friends i had that were mine alone I have here on the internet, thats one of the things Im so scared to miss and loose right now when i cant be online with out pay for it in the internet café here.
But i have to keep my hopes up some how, and i have to be in here or i will go crazy totally, i also need to be able to HELP others or I will feel bad and even worse then bad, im raised to help, and i love the feeling to be able to help in any way i can, and with out TP or my own sites, i cant do anything of a kind, I call it my maouse trap, I smell the cheese from TP, but i cant get to it, but i have to to feel good so i trap my self in the end  :2funny:

Hope this explained some of the "jam", i will be out of it some time some how, and you are one BIG great help in getting me some thing that matters so much to me.
Thank you for caring so much.
Love
//g6

G6....*many hugs*

I am so sorry for what you are having to deal with right now. You have been so helpful to me here. You are a beautiful strong person...you WILL get through this. And I hope karma comes around to take a big hunk out of your "husbands" hiney.  :knuppel2:

I wish I could do something right now, but all I can offer is a huge hug and well wishes.

Hugs and thoughts are just as valuable to me as any other help :)
So i say thank you for the thoughts and hugs  :-*

Future Song
DreamSinger

The future's creating the present
Against the backdrop of the past
And every dream will call me
Until I answer them at last
My future makes the sun rise
No more a slave of time
I'm not defined by yesterday
It's what I'll be that shapes my life

It doesn't matter who hurt you
Or whether guilt still haunts your heart
For when you walk with compassion
Your soul will heal its scars
You know it's not enough
To no longer fall
You got a right to fly
You can soar on spirit's call

So tell yourself the truth
Of where you've really been
No matter how dark your secret
Let the healing work begin
You can feel the pain inside you
Name your rage and set it free
Then turn to face tomorrow
And decide what you will be

Because the future's creating the present
Against the backdrop of the past
And every dream will call you
Until you answer them at last
Your future makes the sun rise
No more a slave of time
You're not defined by yesterday
It's what you're becoming that shapes your life

G6.  As hard as life is here for us in the states...your story is heartbreaking.  I hope you get on you feet again ASAP.  I will be sending a little bit, and I might buy a theme from Bloc/Stormlrd...So watch out.  If you weren't across the big pond...I would give you a computer, that was recently gifted to me.  Good luck;  talk to you soon.  Hygron

NEWS!

In an hour me and DENNIS will be on our way HOME!!
he is released from to day from here (still have to go to daycare in the local hospital at home) but we are going to our new home to gether and away from here  :D

With this, all my chanses on getting online will end until i can get that PC for us.
Im still some way from having reached the amount as i had to take some of it to get the medics for Dennis to day to use at home, so i hope you want to help me and my children to be able to come back here in not to long time  :buck2:
But until then, i want to say the biggest thank you to all of you that have helped us through this time here, you have been my air, my blood, and the very reason for not giving up every thing and leave this world, and i can say it were really close at one time i did end it all. But my feelings for my children, you in here, and the best family staff possible here on TP made me stay and not quit it all.

I will miss you so darn much it hurts, even if i get to go home with my Dennis, a big part will be missed, and thats you and TP.
I hope that some time be able to give atleast something back to all of you that supported us through this, i really will miss you.
Thank you for just being there for us.
//Carina

I am very very happy to know he will be close to you again, and soon, he will also be in touch with us. All you can do to thank me for helping you the little I have and can, is to be happy, for I wish nothing more from you. :D

Still here, still holding your spot.

Raoni.

Carina? What a beautiful name  :)

I am so happy for you and your beautiful son. There is nothing you need do...you have already given so much. Just be well, be happy and know that you are held in the hearts of so many. Awaiting your return with faith that it will be soon.

Thank you :)
Just stopping by for a qick look, im at a friends place and i jumped all over her PC to get in here and say hello :)

Im missing you guys, and im thinking of you all the time  :'(
Still have to wait until i got the foundings needed to buy me a PC, but i will get there some time :)

Hope you help out where you can and be polite to all our members :)
Love
//Carina

I'm glad you get a home now!!!!!!  I'm glad your son get to come home too.  I think thing's is looking lot's better from the first time i read your story on here about you and your son. It's so sad all that.  But at the end everything going to be alright.

Your Friend Tabitha!!!

Hey G6  Hows it going?  Hang in there Kiddo.  Smile!

So far she is hanging in there to this day.  All us and TP keep her going throw life.

I'm so glad that Dennis will finally be out of the hostipal!

We are right back in there again  :-\  We had 11 days at home when he got feaver and the day after we had to come in here

He got a bad bacteria that attack his lungs and that started to fill his lungs with fluid again so we had to call the paramedics so they drowe us back in here again, The heart is fine though, but they had to put in a new drain again to the lung and he's on penicillin and cough medicin.
Another 10 to 14 days to spend in here again   >:(

But this time im in the same room, and i have borrowed a laptop from a girlfriend this week, so i will be online when i can.  :-\

poor tike, he's got got one wonderful mom though and I bet he's proud of it! Yall all hang in there because all these little setbacks do is make you all stronger bet on it!

((((((Carina & Dennis))))))

Both of them gotto hang in there.  It a shame he have to go back in there.

My thoughts are with you two. :)

I feel them, I feel them  :-*

Big Huggs for G6 and family. :)

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crip~

Thank you Crip  :-*

Quote from: G6â„¢ on February 20, 2007, 11:42:20 AM
I feel them, I feel them  :-*

G6, Can you give us a update on him please?

Updates as requested.

We are home (the new home) and last week was a setback and another 9 days spent at the hospital were a fact. But since yesterday morning we have been home in our apartment.
A lot of things have to be done as the time in the hospital have taken so much time from actually make this our living.
I have to put together beds, we have only had the madresses on the floor, but to day i have managed to put them to gether so now we will be able to sleep in them  :)

Another good thing is that the donations made have made it possible for us to finally be on the internet from HOME!!
Last week I got an offer on a used PC (just the box) and i bought it.
AMD XP 3700+ 64 2.2ghz, 1024ram, Gainward 5600 graphick and a big sata disk for 2000sek ~285$
And to day we went shopping for a TG board, Mouse and a used screen (19") and we spent 80$ on that.
Still need speakers and a headset, but it will come :) So we got a PC package for 365$ :D

Still need a lot of things, like a TV, lamps, curtains and flowers and a whole lot of other things for the kitchen, but we will make it and grow with our new home  :)

More updates will come while we are working on getting a home and life to gether :9

And again, i really want to thank you all that helped us so far to get where we are to day, it would not have been possible to be here if you havent helped us with it.
Some day i really hope you can feel in your heart how much me and my children loves you that have helped us .
I know i have cried a whole lot when i think of all the people that came forward for me, the feeling is so great that i cant keep the tears away when i sit here.
TRhank you so much and thank you for the support and for the feelings you give me to be able to keep my self to gether and keep fighting every day.
You really have helped me to get up from the sleep every morning and get dressed for another day and another fight to stay alive.
You really are my blood and heart in all this.
Thank you  :-*

Thank you G6 for the update for us!!!!! Thank you very much!!

I'm glad everything is going awesome so far.  I'm glad your son is getting better too.  I am so glad you have a home to call home now! 

Keep on fighting eachday!!

Life is a journey with achievement and disappointment along the way. It is the unity that is important. You and your children WILL overcome because you love each other. We can all see how important your connection to your internet family is to your wellbeing.

Cry with joy, we love you as well.

Quote from: nokonium on February 24, 2007, 07:42:33 PM
Life is a journey with achievement and disappointment along the way. It is the unity that is important. You and your children WILL overcome because you love each other. We can all see how important your connection to your internet family is to your wellbeing.

Cry with joy, we love you as well.

Yes, you are correct about that one!

:)

Have a  really nice night with your family there, mine is already a lot better now. 8)

prayers for yours G6.  Now you got me all teary eyed...geeeeez. 

I'm pleased with the progress and it's nice to see you have a new computer.
Best wishes in your new home.. and All the best to you and Dennis.

Onwards and Upwards :)


ZTN

Just heard about this and was saddened to read the posts.

Unfortunatly cant help G6 (have some serious financial problems of my own right now, may not even have a home ina  few weeks) but was wondering how things were going since the last post which was some months ago?

Is everthing settled now for you, son ok? etc etc.

Hope you are well anyway.

Yes, forgot about this post here.

Dennis is doing just fine, he had his last operation (hopefulluy and how things look now) 2 and a half weeks ago.
We have a good and steady home now and things are moving along pretty good :)

With this I also want to say a big thank you to all that have helped us to where we are to day, it would not havbe been possible with out all the warm hearted people that have helped us with all from nice kind words to donation.

THANK YOU!!  :-*

I only found this thread today, there so many threads to read thro on this site. I'm glad to hear that things are looking up, and want to say so glad that you still are able to visit here. Advice you have posted within the forums has helped me and my partner with the site we are doing, and we would not have got as far as we have with it without the threads of help and advice from people like you and the other wonderful people that are part of this community. It is like a big family.

Best wishes for the future, l hope it holds many smiles and laughter for you and your family. x

Is this still G6's email for paypal?

webmaster@familjegodis.se

I'd like to make a donation.

Donate button on her site.
http://www.familjegodis.se/index.php?action=forum

Thanks,

Looked but didn't see and don't read whatever language that is.

Quote from: mrgray on July 03, 2007, 11:46:28 PM
Is this still G6's email for paypal?

webmaster@familjegodis.se

That is correct.

Thank you,

Form seemed to be for many things and had a look I was not familiar with. Email addy much easier.

Thanks

She already did great, time really does fly, it has been 2 years already!

Nifelhein,

That was a spammer.  Post removed.

ZarPrime

I thought so, hehe. ;)